This article from NYTimes.com In Rome, Doing as Few Romans Do June 16, 2002 By FRANCINE PROSE LIKE the rest of staff at the Rome Cavalieri Hilton, the reception clerk had the looks of a movie star and the patience of a saint. Graciously, she pretended not to see my eyes glaze over as she described the hourly shuttle bus that picked up guests at the hotel (in the Monte Mario district, northwest of the city center) and, within 30 minutes, delivered them to downtown Rome and its tourist attractions. The Trevi Fountain? The Piazza Navona? Sure, O.K., whatever. Did she honestly imagine we planned to leave the hotel? I kept wondering how happy I would have been to arrive in Rome and find myself so near and yet so far from the Eternal City. But my husband, Howie, and I were spending two months at the American Academy in Rome, and for us, a day and a night at the Hilton - which has recently undergone a $15 million refurbishment - was 24 hours in paradise. Who needed the stresses of urban life when we had a sweeping view of the city from our furnished private terrace, mirrored on both sides to expand the panorama, and from our spacious bedroom and sitting area upholstered in lemon and teal? Why hike to the Villa Borghese when the hotel had its own 15-acre Mediterranean garden, woodland trails, an outdoor pool, a putting green, two clay tennis courts, an aviary and a flock of Montgelana hens that considerately lay eggs with a low-cholesterol content, which are served at breakfast. Why poke around the chilly ruins of the Baths of Caracalla when the hotel's health spa worked so hard to make us feel like patricians in ancient Rome? We swam in the heated, glass-domed indoor pool decorated with columns and classical busts, and equipped with a fireplace; steamed in the softly lighted Turkish bath, surrounded by mosaics; roasted in the sauna; then cooled off in the whirlpool. We both had massages and, if we'd wanted, could have gotten facials, haircuts and workouts with a personal trainer in the high-tech gym and weight room; taken yoga and dance classes; and enjoyed a beauty process called, mysteriously, the caviar treatment. Among the things I loved about the health spa was the selection of fattening pastries you could buy in its cafe. In fact, no place in the hotel was very far from food. >From 7 a.m. to 1 a.m. (last seating, 11:30 p.m.), you can eat at the garden restaurant, Il Giardino dell'Uliveto, which has an excellent lunch buffet, or have a snack or drink at the adjacent cafe, or have your meal brought directly to your chaise longue beside the pool. There's tea with harp music every afternoon in the lobby, where the cocktail hour features rococo mixed drinks called astros, each named after a sign of the zodiac. And had we brought a pet, Fifi or Fido could have enjoyed a selection, delivered to the room, from the four-course Menu del Vostro Fedele Amico. Our room-service American breakfast arrived quickly, with the eggs and coffee still hot; we tried not to be offended by the idea of "American" reflected in the gargantuan meal of juice, eggs, pancetta, pancakes, yogurt, toast, pastries, cereal, fruit salad and coffee. At the (metaphorical and literal) summit of the food chain at the Hilton is the rooftop restaurant, La Pergola, which has been awarded two Michelin stars. I admit I had to repress the urge to bolt when the waiter brought our water menu, a booklet classifying the available bottled waters by their region of origin and providing more information than I needed on their mineral content and health benefits. And perusing the pricey two-volume wine list - nearly as heavy as the Rome phone directory, presumably listing only a fraction of the 48,000 bottles in the cellar - required a certain amount of work. But I was instantly won over by the amuse-bouches brought to our table: a mouthful of vitello tonnato; a buttery scrap of lamb carpaccio; a cherry tomato stuffed with a single fried artichoke leaf; and kind of a cocktail made of puréed arugula and lemon juice that tasted like the essence of spring. The meal - prepared by the chef Heinz Beck - was inspired. I loved the fried zucchini flower, light as a sigh, floating on a saffron broth in a bowl that seemed to have been specially designed for the dish, and accompanied by chunks of lobster. Our roast duck appeared in stages: first the breast, sliced and served with mustard sauce, then a duck broth with duck ravioli, then the leg, with a peppercorn gravy and a kind of silver clamp that again seemed expressly invented for its purpose. Before dessert, new candles (evocative of a birthday cake) were brought to the table to change the lighting and the mood, and with our coffee came a silver chest of drawers, each of which contained two perfect miniature pastries. Regardless of my qualms about about the silliness of a water menu, the decadence of doggy room service, and the experience of going to Rome to stay in a hotel that looks as if it belongs in Miami Beach, I'd definitely return to La Pergola. And it seemed to me that the Cavalieri, which had plenty of very young guests, would be a haven for families needing a break from the challenge of safely shepherding the kids across the busy Piazza Venezia - which was where we were headed when, the next morning, we left the Hilton and returned to the noisy, crowded, beautiful city below. I used to fantasize about hiding out in museums until after closing time so I could sleep in the historic bedrooms - the re-creations of apartments from Venetian palazzi or French chateaus. Spending a night in the Palazzo Ruspoli allowed me to live out the fantasy, and at the same time - as so often happens - only kicked the fantasy up to a whole other level. Now, if I could afford $700 a night, I'd like to live in the Napoleon III suite. Set in a 16th-century palace, a somewhat fortresslike building on the corner of the Via Condotti and the Via del Corso in the heart of Rome's designer-shopping district, the suite consists of three magnificent rooms each the size of a large one-bedroom apartment in New York, but with higher ceilings. In January, the redecorated suite was opened as part of a luxury two-suite bed-and-breakfast by the Principessa Letizia Ruspoli, who lives in the building. There is no sign or anything else to indicate the presence of the B & B as you enter the courtyard and take the birdcage elevator or the sweeping marble staircase; not even the women who worked in an office facing the courtyard seemed to know that the suite existed. Luckily, we called ahead, and the Principessa sent a man downstairs to help with our luggage and show us the way. The first and most formal of the three rooms is done in a pale silvery green; the second is decorated in shades of gold; in the bedroom, the canopied bed is covered and draped with a subtle checked fabric. All three rooms feature stenciled walls, parquet floors, antique furnishings and silver, velvet and brocade, and lots of trompe l'oeil. There are embroidered bed linens and towels and gold-plated faucets in the rather tiny but handsomely decorated marble bathroom; tapestries; beamed and painted ceilings; massive Watteau-esque paintings, which, like the rest of the suite, are beautifully lighted; a mini-bar; and a small kitchen. In short, it's like being transported back to the 18th century and being allowed to take along all the comforts of modernity: a plug for your computer modem, a VCR and CD player, a satellite TV with hundreds of channels, from CNN and the BBC to Al Jazeera and a station from Montenegro. A Continental breakfast (cornutti, fresh-squeezed blood-orange juice and, puzzlingly, instant coffee) was delivered to our door at the time we requested and served in silver pots, on a silver tray in the green room. Everything - the tiny clip-on reading lamp, the antique pen on the desk, the pots of flowers, the package of bath salts - seems carefully thought out to provide the maximum possible pleasure and convenience. A butler and a tour guide are available on request. The friendly and extremely personable Principessa, to whom I spoke when I called to make reservations, speaks excellent English. During our stay, she was away, and we were welcomed by her equally charming cousin Claudia, who showed us the less grand but also delightful Roof Garden Suite. It has two rooms that are less formal than the Napoleon Suite's but still elegant, and a huge terrace offering marvelous views of Rome. Travelers requiring the availability and reassurance of a hotel restaurant, a concierge and 24-hour room service might have some qualms about staying at the Palazzo Ruspoli - but we would have been happy to take up residence there forever. We saw quite a bit of the Hotel Eden, a few blocks from the Via Veneto, as we traipsed from room to room in search of one that was acceptable, even by the most undemanding standards. The first room was large and sunny, but a powerful smell of stopped drains and faulty plumbing emanated from the bathroom. The second room was minuscule. The third - where we finally stayed - was big enough, charmingly decorated with attractive furnishings, including a romantic four-poster bed. But because it faced an inner courtyard, it was also dark and somewhat airless. After a few hours, the same unfortunate smell started coming from the bathroom, spoiling our admiration of the gold leaf with which it was decorated. The plumber who came to unblock the pipes - succeeding, as it turned out, only temporarily - flooded the bathroom, and two chambermaids arrived to clean up. The hotel bar on the rooftop, La Terrazza, has a gorgeous view of Rome, as does the restaurant, which, less appealingly, also has the atmosphere of a suburban country club back home. The service was attentive, but the food ranged from the acceptable to the downright weird; the stewed papaya, spiced with mace, that accompanied my roast suckling pig suggested a sort of slimy pumpkin pie. Endearingly, the desk clerks had noticed, when they checked my passport, that it was my birthday, and a cake and a greeting card was brought to our table at dinner. But the vague sense of guilt that this thoughtfulness inspired - how could I be so dissatisfied with a hotel that remembered my birthday? - was rapidly dispelled the next morning by the unripe fruit, greasy pancetta, rubbery cheese and stale rolls in the breakfast buffet.    Visitor Information Rome Cavalieri Hilton, Via Cadlolo 101, 00136 Rome; (800) 445-8667 or (39-06) 35091, fax (39-06) 3509-2241; www.cavalieri-hilton.it, has 372 rooms. A standard double is $474, at 1.09 euros to the dollar. Continental breakfast is $29. The use of the fitness center is $28; a massage, $80. Dinner at La Pergola for two with wine, about $320. Palazzo Ruspoli, Largo Goldoni 56, 00186, Rome; (39-347) 7337-098, or phone and fax (39-06) 688-08083; www.prestigiousrome.com. The Napoleon III Suite costs $711 a night, Continental breakfast included. Roof garden suite, $310. Hotel Eden, Via Ludovisi 49, 00187, Rome; (39-06) 478-121, fax (39-06) 482-1584; www.hotel-eden.it, has 134 rooms and suites. A standard double is $660, but in off-season we negotiated down to $541. Continental breakfast, $25.70. Dinner for two with wine at La Terraza, about $230. http://www.nytimes.com/2002/06/16/travel/ROME.html?ex=1025137427&ei=1&en=cff76488de25b128